To make matters worse, in some jurisdictions, the appellate courts are so backlogged that your appeal may not be decided for more than a year.
Can you do an appeal yourself? If you're a lawyer, maybe. However, it would be very hard for a layperson to do the legal research, and you would still be faced with transcript and photocopying costs.
When you consider whether to appeal, listen to your attorney and your head. As much as you may want to, this is not the time to vote with your heart.
The Least You Need to Know
The judge is the final decision maker if you and your spouse have not been able to come to an agreement.
Motions tend to be expensive because lawyers have to put a lot of time into them. Settle whatever you can with your spouse to avoid motion practice.
A trial is like a tennis gamea lot of back and forthand often much like what you've seen on television.
Always try to control your emotions in court. Never make faces in court.
Pause before answering questions. Give your lawyer time to object and give yourself time to answer correctly.
Consider the chances of success and the expense involved before you decide to appeal.