Open conflict between parents is the most important factor in determining whether your children will do well after your divorce. If you and your ex-spouse cannot stop fighting, have a third-party professionala Parenting Coordinatorbe the intermediary between you and your ex.
If there is open conflict, the visitation schedule will have to be modified to reduce the number of transitions or, in extreme cases, supervised visitation should be instituted.
Never put your children in the middle of the fighting. Don't ask them to ally with you against their other parent.
