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Our friend was cordial throughout the meeting, but was able to walk away from it understanding he was well out of a relationship that meant nothing but pain. He had looked into the eye of the monster, after all, and he had prevailed. |
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The moral of the story: After your divorce, face your ambivalence head on. If your spouse has really been a louse or is just not right for you, you'll have the ability to see that, even if, in your weaker moments, you're still not sure. |
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Allow yourself to experience the pain. It's something you've got to get through, but don't hold onto it indefinitely. |
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After the divorce is final, sit back and reflect on what went wrong in your marriage. Perhaps if you can really understand what went down here, you will be less likely to repeat the mistake again. |
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After your divorce, face your ambivalence head on. If your spouse has really been a louse or is just not right for you, you'll have the ability to see that, even if, in your weaker moments, you're still not sure. |
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Do not try to reintegrate your ex-spouse into your life after divorce. It is time to let go. |
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