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filing |
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appeals, 120121 |
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for divorce, 4142 |
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without lawyers, 48 |
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finalizing divorce, 120 |
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financial |
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history, 3637 |
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issues, 19 |
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accountants, 167168 |
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assessing debt, 13 |
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bankruptcy, 170171 |
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budgeting, 173174 |
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building credit, 15, 168169, 173174 |
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canceling credit cards, 16 |
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children, 166167 |
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earnings potential, 13 |
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family's holdings, 13 |
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finding jobs, 168 |
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hidden monies, 170171 |
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household expenses, 14 |
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illegal transfers, 171 |
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inventory, 14 |
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joint debts, 169170 |
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knowing (spouse) income, 12 |
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living expenses, 14 |
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major purchases, 17 |
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moving from residence, 17 |
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photocopy records, 14 |
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safeguarding property, 16 |
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saving money, 15 |
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selling houses, 171172 |
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separations, 3132 |
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splitting households, 165166 |
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withdrawing savings, 15 |
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worksheet for expenses, 2022 |
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resources |
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National Foundation for Consumer Credit, 284 |
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Older Women's League, 284 |
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Pension Rights Center, 284 |
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Find the Children, 278 |
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Five-Minute Lawyer's Guide to Divorce, The, 292 |
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For the Sake of the Children, 287 |
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forensics, 204, 297 |
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friends |
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changing over time, 259260 |
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maintaining after divorce, 259 |
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married, 260261 |
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meeting new, 260261 |
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furniture (dividing assets), 132 |
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garnishment, 160, 297 |
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Grandparenting Redefined, 292 |
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grief, coping with, 2627 |
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GriefNet (Web site), 295 |
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grounds for divorce, 9, 78, 298 |
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guardian ad litem, 100 |
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Guide to Divorce Mediation, A, 292 |
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guidelines |
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agreeing to less support, 156159 |
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firing your attorney, 6364 |
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getting legal advice, 5860 |
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keeping the house, 134135 |
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lawyers firing clients, 64 |
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legal fees, 7274 |
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maintaining boundaries, 62 |
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maintenance settlements, 144145 |
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mediation, 8788 |
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negotiating child support, 156 |
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negotiating settlements, 8082 |
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resolving conflicts, 110 |
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selling the house, 133134 |
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settlement agreements, 116 |
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violating professional codes, 6061 |
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health insurance, 162163 |
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hiring |
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lawyers, 12, 18 |
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private investigators, 3840 |
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honesty |
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breaking the news |
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to children, 16 |
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to spouse, 1617 |
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importance of explaining, 26 |
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hotlines |
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Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 282 |
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Texas Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 282 |
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hourly rates (lawyers), 75 |
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houses |
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dividing assets, 130, 133136 |
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keeping, 134135 |
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selling, 133134 |
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How to Collect Child Support, 287 |
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Illusion of Equality, The, 291 |
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Impact of Divorce, Single Parenting and Stepparenting on Children, 289 |
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impediments to settlement agreements, 115116 |
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in-laws, 258259 |
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income (spouse's), 12 |
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increasing child support, 162 |
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indirect child support payments, 153154 |
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infants and toddlers (visitation needs), 197 |
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integrating stepfamilies, 233235 |
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International Association for Marriage and Family, 285 |
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