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AgeTime with Noncustodial ParentVacation Time
1 to 2 1/2 years2 hours per day, 2 days per week if custodial parent works, or 3 days per week if custodial parent doesn't work; 5 hours one weekend day, no visit second weekend day in the custodial home until 2 years, then in the noncustodial homeNo change
2 1/2 to 5 years2 hours per day, 2 days per week; 7 hours 1 weekend day at noncustodial parent's home; between 4 and 5 years old, depending on child's temperament, 1 overnight per weekend every other weekend, plus one or two 2-hour visits per week can be phased inStart with 2 days and 1 overnight working toward 2 overnights by 5 years old 4 times a year
6 to 8 yearsPhase in 2 overnights every other weekend plus one or two 2-hour visits per weekStart with three 4-day overnights per year working toward 1 week winter or spring holiday and one 1-week, plus one 2-week summer vacation.
9 to 12 yearsEvery other weekend (or if parents live close, 3-day weekend) plus 1 midweek visit; close school, friends, and community contact should be maintainedShare holidays equally; child may spend up to 4 weeks in one block in the summer toward the later part of this period
13 to 18 yearsSchedule can be worked out with children's input; home base with specific evenings, weekends, and activities at the other home must be scheduled for predictability; or equal basis with each parent up to 2 weeks in each residence; children's input should have easy access to school, peers, extra-curricular, and community involvement from both homesDepending on child's summer plans, time with each parent should be divided equally

 
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