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Responsibilities of the Noncustodial Parent |
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What are your practical responsibilities as a noncustodial parent? You don't have to buy the clothes for your children, but if you can afford it (even if you are paying your exspouse support), it might be a good idea to have a spare outfit or two at your place. Some toys for the younger kids is a must. If you cook, do be the provider of home-cooked meals. If not, try to learn. If you can't see yourself in that role at all, or you think you're hopeless, then order in or go out. |
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Regarding discipline, the same is true at your home as for the primary residence: Firm discipline with a loving touch yields the best results. |
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What if your very young children are having a hard time being away from their custodial parent? If you are not able to comfort your small children after a reasonable amount of time, be flexible and hope your ex-spouse will be as well. Bring your children back and try again soon, maybe for a shorter time but more often. In the end, you will have earned your children's trust in you and you won't have risked their emotional well being. |
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How to Juggle Child Care, Work, and Your Social Life |
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Being a single parent is, indeed, a juggling act. If you have not been working, you will most likely have to revamp your entire world view and put major time and effort into developing your career. You will also need help with the kids when you aren't home. Depending on their ages and your financial situation, you may need a full- or part-time baby-sitter and day care or nursery school. For older children, if you can afford it, having someone at home for their arrival will give them a feeling of security. Even young teenagersalthough they won't admit itfeel more at ease if they know someone is looking after them. |
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