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You'll have to shop whenever you have a spare moment and have dinner ready for your hungry brood. Spending time with your kids after dinner playing games, reading, and doing homework is the rewarding part of parenting. This is especially true for single parents, whose time with their children is limited to the hours and days that the children literally live with you.
Rebooting Your Social Life
Unless the reason for your divorce was that you had a new love in your life, at some point during the healing process you will be ready to meet new people. Dating again can be scary or exciting, depending on your temperament and state of mind and how badly you've been burned. (More about this in Chapter 27.) The question here is, how to fit a social life into your busy schedule and how it will impact your children.
The best time to become socially active is when your kids are with their other parent. First, you will be free to be you, not your kids' parent. Second, your children will need time to think about your being romantically involved with another person of the opposite sex.

 
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