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divorced individual as for anyone else. You answer an ad in the newspaper, contact a realtor, or respond to a For Rent shingle on the street. |
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At this time of emotional upheaval, however, the newly divorced individual may be tempted to take any room or apartmentincluding one that would normally be unacceptablejust to move. Do be aware, as you choose the setting for your new life, that it must serve you well. Even if you don't have much money, you can find someplace with sunlight, a decent kitchen, and a modicum of safety. Maybe not today, but some day in the future, you will bring a new date home to this simple abode. It doesn't need to be fancy, but the basics are key. |
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Gordon was in such a rush to move out following his divorce that he grabbed the first apartment he could find. The two-bedroom was, in fact, idealexcept for the train that rattled the walls, the mice and the roaches, and the windows facing alleyways, letting just a glimmer of sunlight in. He was particularly embarrassed when, shortly after making a telephone call, the train would come roaring by. Are you calling from the subway? was the invariable question. Oh no, he'd mutter to himself, I just have this tacky apartment across the street from the train. |
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Of course you need to move out with good speed, but when you're looking for that new place, choose well. |
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If you have children who will be living with you some or all of the time, make sure that the space you select works for them. Is there a bedroomor at least an alcovefor the kids? Will there be a patch of grass where they can run? If possible, parents should try to select a new home relatively close to the old, especially if children are school age. That way, children will not have to give up social, school, or community events even when on visitation. |
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