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life insurance, 163 |
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noncustodial parent, 153154 |
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payments, 152154 |
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reducing, 161162 |
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Child Support Recovery Act, 160161 |
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Child Welfare League of America, 281 |
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abandonment, 191192 |
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adapting to two homes, 232 |
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differing expectations, 235236 |
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adjusting to divorce, 194 |
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blaming selves or parents, 190 |
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after custody is determined, 179180 |
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attitudes, 195196 |
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during separations, 30 |
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coping with fears, 190 |
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custody, 179 |
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determining primary residence, 181182 |
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high-conflict divorce, 183184 |
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mothers relinquishing, 182183 |
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negotiating, 178 |
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dealing with emotions, 18, 190191 |
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discussing divorce, 186, 188189 |
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family meetings, 187189 |
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financial issues, 166167 |
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health care, 162163 |
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increasing involvement, 15 |
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joint custody, 180181 |
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latch-key, 226 |
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life insurance, 163 |
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moving between parents, 193194 |
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coping with, 211212 |
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flexibility, 216 |
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making the exchange, 212214 |
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separation anxiety, 216217 |
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transitions, 209211 |
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nurturing, 228 |
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open conflicts, 203206, 213214 |
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parenting coordinators, 205206 |
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rights, 275278 |
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separations, 186 |
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sole custody, 180181 |
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suspicions of abuse, 218 |
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time-sharing schedules, 196 |
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adolescents, 198 |
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elementary school age, 198 |
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holidays, 202 |
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infants and toddlers, 197 |
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long-distance relationships, 203 |
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preadolescents, 198 |
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predictability, 199200 |
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preschoolers, 197198 |
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Children of Divorce: A Developmental Approach to Residence and Visitation, 287 |
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Children's Rights Council, 276 |
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civil court (divorce cases), 104 |
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co-parenting |
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attitudes, 195196 |
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custody, 179180 |
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during separations, 30 |
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moving children between two homes, 193194 |
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open conflicts, 203206 |
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parenting coordinators, 205206 |
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reducing conflicts, 214 |
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time-sharing schedules, 196 |
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adolescents, 198 |
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elementary school age, 198 |
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holidays, 202 |
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infants and toddlers, 197 |
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long-distance relationships, 203 |
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preadolescents, 198 |
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predictability, 199200 |
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preschoolers, 197198 |
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cohabitation, 296 |
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Committee for Mother and Child Rights, 276 |
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community property, 130131, 296 |
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competence (lawyers), 75 |
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Complete Divorce Recovery Handbook, The, 294 |
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Complete Guide for Men and Women Divorcing, The, 292 |
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conferences |
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impressions, 97 |
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motions, 9798 |
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pre-trial, 96 |
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conflicts |
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co-parenting, 203206 |
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protecting children from, 213214 |
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resolving, 67, 110 |
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when therapy is needed, 217218 |
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constructive abandonment, 296 |
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constructive separations, 2930 |
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contempt (legal), 296 |
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coping with |
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anger, 19 |
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conflict, 30 |
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doubts, 248249 |
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emotions, 244, 246 |
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grief, 2627 |
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homesickness, 246247 |
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letting go, 247248 |
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loneliness, 255256 |
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rejection, 245 |
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separations, 2930 |
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Coping With Marital Transitions: A Family Systems Perspective, 289 |
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costs (quick divorce), 82 |
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