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counseling, see therapy |
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court cases, 99100 |
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Crazy Time, 294 |
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credentials (mediators), 90 |
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credit |
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building own, 15, 168169 |
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canceling cards, 16 |
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cross-examinations, 99, 296 |
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custodial parents, 222 |
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agreeing to less support, 156 |
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discipline, 223 |
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indirect child support, 152153 |
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needs of, 223224 |
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adapting to two homes, 232 |
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co-parenting, 179180, 195196 |
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determing primary residence, 181182 |
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differing expectations, 235236 |
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high-conflict divorce, 183184 |
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involvement with children 15 |
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joint, 180181, 298 |
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legal, 179 |
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mothers relinquishing, 182183 |
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moving between parents, 193194 |
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coping, 211212 |
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flexibility, 216 |
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making the exchange, 212214 |
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refusals by children, 214215 |
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separation anxiety, 216217 |
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transitions, 179, 209211 |
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open conflicts, 203206 |
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parenting coordinators, 205206 |
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physical, 179 |
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separations, 29, 32 |
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smear campaigns, 217218 |
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sole, 29, 180181 |
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suspicions of abuse, 218 |
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time-sharing schedules, 196 |
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adolescents, 198 |
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elementary school age, 198 |
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holidays, 202 |
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infants and toddlers, 197 |
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long-distance relationships, 203 |
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preadolescent, 198 |
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predictability, 199200 |
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preschoolers, 197198 |
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dating |
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defining preferences, 267269 |
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disclosures about past, 265266 |
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discretion, 38 |
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emotional readiness, 264 |
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experimental, 265266 |
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getting serious, 266 |
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serial, 266 |
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single parenting, 226227 |
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trusting again, 268269 |
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debts |
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assessing, 13 |
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joint, 137138, 169170 |
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decision making |
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ending marriages, 45, 78 |
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abusive relationships, 910 |
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children, 5 |
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loss of trust, 4 |
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negativity, 4 |
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ramifications, 89 |
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legal, 297 |
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telling children, 186, 188189 |
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where to live, 14 |
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child support, 160 |
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divorce, 8384 |
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defendants, 41 |
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depositions, 98, 297 |
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Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families, 290 |
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direct child support payments, 152154 |
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direct examination, 99, 297 |
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discipline |
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parenting styles, 236 |
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single parenting, 223 |
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discovery |
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legal, 297 |
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process, 9899 |
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discussing divorce with children, 187189 |
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dividing assets |
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cars, 132 |
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cash, 132 |
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creating master lists, 132 |
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Division of Property Chart, 138139 |
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factors courts consider, 131 |
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family businesses, 136137 |
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furniture, 132 |
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household items, 130 |
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houses, 133136 |
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pension funds, 137138 |
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state laws, 130131 |
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trading a house for a family business, 136137 |
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without legal staff, 132 |
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divorces |
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as new beginning, 5 |
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Civil Court, 104 |
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coping with spouse's attorney, 101 |
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dating before final decree, 38 |
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deciding to appeal, 104105 |
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decrees |
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enforcing, 124125 |
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losing your job, 124 |
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modifying, 122123 |
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remarriages, 123124 |
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default, 8384 |
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employment, 261262 |
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Family Court, 104 |
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