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Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, 279 |
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men's support |
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Father's Rights and Equality Exchange, 283 |
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National Congress for Fathers and Children, 282 |
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National Fatherhood Initiative, 282 |
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mother's support |
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National Center on Women and Family Law, 280 |
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National Women's Law Center, 280 |
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Women's Law Project, 280 |
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Women's Legal Defense Fund, 281 |
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psychological |
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Ackerman Institute for Family Therapy, 285 |
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American Self-Help Clearinghouse, 285 |
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Divorce Support, 284 |
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International Association for Marriage and Family, 285 |
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New Beginnings, 285 |
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National Organization of Single Mothers, 279 |
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Parent Resource Center, 279 |
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Parents Without Partners, 279 |
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respondents, 41, 299 |
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restructuring communications (therapy), 67 |
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retainer agreements, 49, 6869, 299 |
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establishing legal rates, 6970 |
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sample copy, 7071 |
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reviewing |
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credentials (mediators), 90 |
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terms of prenuptial agreements, 4041 |
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rituals (establishing new), 255 |
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Rocking the Cradle of Sexual Politics, 286 |
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safeguarding personal property, 16 |
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saving marriages |
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by separating, 28 |
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with therapy, 57 |
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savings (withdrawing), 15 |
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schedules (visitation), 194, 196198 |
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adolescents, 198 |
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coping with changes, 211212 |
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elementary school age, 198 |
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flexibility, 199, 216 |
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holidays, 202 |
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infants and toddlers, 197 |
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long-distance relationships, 203 |
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making the exchange, 212214 |
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parenting plans, 205206 |
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preadolescents, 198 |
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predictability, 199200 |
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preschoolers, 197198 |
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refusals by children, 214215 |
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resolving conflicts, 204 |
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revising, 201202 |
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separation anxiety, 216217 |
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transitions, 209211 |
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Second Chances: Men, Women, and Children a Decade After Divorce, 286 |
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second marriages, 269271 |
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selecting |
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affordable lawyers, 50 |
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compatible attorneys, 52 |
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matrimonial lawyers, 4849 |
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reputable mediators, 8890 |
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therapists, 67 |
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self-esteem, 267269 |
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selling houses |
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financial issues, 171172 |
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making the decision, 133134 |
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Separate Houses: A Handbook for Divorced Parents, 288 |
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separate property, 299 |
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separations |
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agreements, 29 |
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anxiety, 216217 |
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co-parenting, 30 |
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constructive use of time, 2931 |
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custody issues, 29, 32 |
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dating discreetly, 38 |
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ending marriages, 2829 |
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financial issues, 3132 |
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hiring private investigators, 3840 |
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legal issues, 3132 |
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moving out of the house, 32 |
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permanent, 28 |
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phases of divorce |
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easing of conflict, 30 |
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emotional reactions, 2527 |
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grieving, 27 |
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healing, 2931 |
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property rights, 31 |
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saving marriages with, 28 |
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support groups, 33 |
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telling children, 186 |
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serving orders of protection, 109 |
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settlement agreements, 113 |
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accepting, 117 |
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boilerplate language, 114115 |
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drafting, 114115 |
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impediments, 115116 |
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maintenance |
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accepting employment, 145 |
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