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change in life circumstances, 148 |
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determining dollar figure 144145 |
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negotiating terms, 146147 |
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resentment after divorce, 142143 |
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mediation, 86 |
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negotiating out of court, 8082 |
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receiving benefits, 121 |
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rejecting, 115116 |
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second marriages, 123124 |
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working out details, 4 |
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Single Parent Resource Center, 279 |
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National Organization of Single Mothers, 279 |
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Parents Without Partners, 279 |
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Single Parent Resource Center, 279 |
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Divorce Central, 294 |
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Divorce Helpline, 295 |
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Divorce Home Page, 294 |
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Divorce Online, 295 |
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Emotional Support Guide, 295 |
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GriefNet, 295 |
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Internet Personals, 295 |
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Match.Com, 295 |
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Men's Movement, 295 |
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Smart Ways to Save Money During and After Divorce, 294 |
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sole custody, 180181, 299 |
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spouses |
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abandoning family, 191192 |
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default divorce, 8384 |
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dividing assets, 132 |
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harassment, 107108 |
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legal fees, 72 |
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mediation, 8687 |
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opposing divorce, 109110 |
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support, 154 |
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using the same lawyer, 74 |
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spouse's attorney, 50 |
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starting legal proceedings, 4142 |
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stepfamilies, 239 |
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integrating, 233235 |
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new baby, 238 |
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privacy, 237 |
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respect, 238 |
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sexuality, 238 |
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stepparents, 232237 |
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Steptrouble: A Survival Guide for Teenagers with Stepparents, 290 |
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strategic planning (divorce), 1117 |
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Successful Single Parenting, 289 |
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support groups, 33, 261 |
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support payments (emancipation), 147 |
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surveillance schemes, 40 |
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Survival Manual for Women in Divorce, The, 290 |
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Surviving the Breakup: How Children and Parents Cope with Divorce, 287 |
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taxes |
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capital gains, 172 |
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sharing joint burden, 137138 |
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terminating child support, 157 |
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Texas Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 282 |
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therapists, 67 |
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therapy |
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conflict resolution, 67, 217218 |
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restructuring communication, 67 |
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saving marriages, 57 |
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when to seek, 267268 |
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traditions, establishing new, 255 |
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transcripts (legal), 299 |
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transfers of money (illegal), 171 |
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transitions |
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coping with, 211212 |
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moving between parents, 209211 |
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trials, 99100 |
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discovery process, 9899 |
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trier of fact, 95 |
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Uniform Premarital Agreement Act, 41 |
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valuables, inventorying, 14 |
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visitation schedules, 194, 196198 |
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adapting to two homes, 232 |
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adolescents, 198 |
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coping with changes, 211212 |
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differing expectations, 235236 |
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elementary school age, 198 |
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flexibility, 199, 216 |
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holidays, 202 |
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infants and toddlers, 197 |
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long-distance relationships, 203 |
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making the exchange, 212214 |
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parenting plans, 205206 |
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preadolescents, 198 |
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predictability, 199200 |
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preschoolers, 197198 |
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refusals by children, 214215 |
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resolving conflicts, 204 |
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revising, 201202 |
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separation anxiety, 216217 |
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transitions, 209211 |
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